Happy 2nd wedding anniversary to Oppa

Hi everyone! Today I will talk less since I'm having bad headaches. *Why God... Why?!*
Anyway, last Monday, my husband and I celebrated our 2nd year wedding anniversary so I thought I would share a little bit about our story and for those who are new to my blog and don't know much yet.

So 19 November 2018 is 2 years of marriage anniversary for my husband and me! Crazy how it seems to have flown by, but also how I really can’t remember what life was like without Oppa in it. Maybe I just prefer to remember life more clearly since Oppa joined in.

My husband bought this yummy blueberry cheese cake for our 2nd wedding anniversary.

Baskin Robbins is a popular ice cream shop that offers excellent ice creams. The ice cream here is the best that we've tasted so far.
We prayed together.

2nd wedding anniversary gift from husband.

What I know for sure after 2 years of being married is that it sure isn’t easy, it requires effort and awareness. MARRIAGE IS FREAKING HARD WORK! It takes a lot of work and even more communication. 

We’ve experienced a lot during these 2 years of marriage: yes, there have lots of been tears and conversations riding on frustration and overwhelmed all at the same time. But there have been such happy, and beautiful moments, too. But most of all, we’ve been blessed with realizing just how easy it really is to go through daily life with our best friend. I think it’s because I chose the right guy! :)

I'm thankful that my husband and I try to work hard at communicating. It's exhausting at times, but most of the time, it's worth it and so rewarding. I’m happy to say that after some struggle we are more solid than we have ever been. 

Experience and time are our wise friends. I see us learning how to choose better every day; for ourselves and our marriage. Even when we make mistakes, we trying to understand, and fix it so we can become a better person. We realize that marriage is about the partnership. You must have the same ideals and goals to maneuver through life. It takes resiliency, patience, trust, understanding and a whole lot of love.

To be able to say that 2 years in we are happier than ever is something I don’t take for granted. I love being married! Marriage is the best thing that I have ever encountered in my life. Marriage is where I feel safest, very unconditionally loved, supported, comforted, and challenged in a good way. Marriage is where I can feel vulnerable, yet so much loyalty, and where I get to witness somebody willing to invest so much time, energy, work, and fight through our differences to make our union stronger and our love deeper.

We are still in our 2nd year and I know we have a long way to go. The longer you have married the more lessons you learn, right? Individual happiness is one of the true keys to a good marriage, and with us both being happy, we are in such a good place with each other. Prayers and faith are there to help us. And love, it all boils down to love.

To my husband, Happy 2nd Wedding Anniversary! Thank you for making me happier than I could have ever imagined was possible. My life with you is the best life I’ve ever lived. You have been a great teacher and inspiration to me. 

I am really thankful to have you who was supportive and excited for the change my life was about to undergo. I understand why God placed you in my path and why HE chose the timing that HE did. I probably don’t tell you everything but it is true. True love is truly a gift from God and something that is so much more powerful and real than any type of worldly success I could ever achieve.
If you're going through a tough spot in your marriage or in a relationship. I know it's hard when you're down in the hole and there's the darkness surrounding you, but trust me the other things can be really beautiful. I think you can get through any marital problem if you and your spouse work together.

If I had to give one piece of advice to someone before getting married it would be to truly like the person you are marrying. It’s so easy to love someone, but it’s harder to know whether someone is a good person or is just faking it. 

Marry the person you have the most fun with and who you want to hang out with. Marry the person who can be patient with you and never do violence to women when they are angry. Abusive people, men or women, are not good and should be dropped immediately if the opportunity is given. 

As you get to know the person longer you can see layers and layers of their real character. Faker will seem good initially and as you get to know the person you will notice how it gets worse and worse. I believe that God has all the right connections. He can find you the right spouse!

Well, that's it for today post! I hope you enjoy this post and see you in my next post.

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